Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Thursday, August 8, 2013

The Growing of Bands

It was a day like any other day.  I awoke at the crack of noon and staggered down the hall in desperate search of coffee.  I collected my cup of joe and retrieved my phone from it's place on the charger.  As always, I began to scroll through my Twitter feed as if it were the morning paper.  In my half coherent reading, I come across this tweet from Ronnie Radke (former Escape the Fate/ current Falling in Reverse):
 I'm not sure what spawned this tweet, but it did get me thinking.  
Why do fans not always want a band to get bigger/ more famous?  I think there are several answers.
I don't feel like many fans dislike the success of the band out of pure selfishness, although there will always be people who will point out to anyone who will listen that they "liked the band BEFORE they were famous" (insert hipster joke here).  It seems to me that fans dislike it when there favorite bands hit the big time because of quality and price.

It's no secret that sometimes, when bands get signed to a larger label or gain more fame for whatever reason, the quality of the music they produce can suffer.  It's no longer about being progressive, new, original, or exciting, and more about making something that will please the general public.  They may not even sound like the same band as before.  For the people that love their music style, this change can be rather disappointing.

Not only does the quality of the music suffer, but often the quality of the attitude of the musicians themselves declines as well.  They are no longer the same humble people that fans connected with.  They can become rude and arrogant with a new found sense of entitlement and morals that receded faster than a middle aged mans hairline.  This is not the standard and is not true of all bands that "make it" but it does happen.

One pretty bit reason that some fans (myself included) are disappointed by fame is a rise in price in a bands concert tickets, merch, etc.  Don't get me wrong.  It is not that bands don't deserve the money, because they do!  They kick their asses making music and touring and they deserve it.  They've grown, they have more fans than ever before, and they have to move from performing in smaller, cheaper venues, to bigger more expensive ones. This means that more people get to experience this bands music.  It also means that their ticket prices go from the $20 to $30 range and sky rocket into the $40 to $100 dollar range.  And that makes sense.  The venue is bigger, therefore the tickets are more expensive.   But when you're a 20 something individual who is going to college and not really making much bank, paying for a $50 concert ticket can be as difficult and painful as pulling teeth.

We love our bands and we want to see them live SO BADLY.  We want to have that experience of listening to our favorite songs performed straight from the individuals that made them.  We want to be in the crowd that is packed elbow to asshole where everyone is sweaty and disheveled and so fucking happy there that they don't even care.  It's that natural high that can only be found in live music.

It's so nice when all your favorite bands are all playing affordable size venues because that means that when there are 6 concerts you want to go to booked back to back to back, you can actually GO TO THEM ALL.  Fuck yes, touchdown, winner winner chicken dinner, bring in the dancing lobsters.  But when there are that many in a row that are crazy expensive, it's a tough one.  You have to pick which one you can afford to see and hope that the others swing back through your town again in the future.

It's not that we don't want our favorite bands to succeed.  We do!  We love them.  We think they are the absolute shit.  Their music makes us feel something.  We connect to it in a way that makes us feel like we are not alone.  We want these bands that we love to make it to the fucking top.  We want the whole world to listen to their music and feel what we feel.  We just hope that on the way up, they don't forget who they are or where they started.  We hope that they don't loose that love for their fans that is only paralleled by the fans love for their music.  We hope they don't fall into a life of excess where money is more important than what they do to earn it.  We pray like hell that that life of excess doesn't take their lives like it has so many before them.  We want to see them live without having to sell our first born child to pay for the ticket.  And when they do begin to play these large, expensive venues, we hope that they don't forget about the fans that couldn't afford to get in: the ones who would be there if they could, the ones who are sitting outside the venues on the sidewalk, or in their cars with the windows rolled down listening to the music through the walls and singing along to every word. 

I know this is a long post, but I really wanted to get my thoughts about this out.  Remember that these are only my opinions.

Peace, Love, Music<3

Monday, November 19, 2012

Halloween 2012

Wow, this post is seriously late!  But better late than never :)
This Halloween is one of the best I've had in a while.  At first I thought that it would just be me, my mom, and my nana watching movies.  Then I got a call from a friend asking me to go trick-or-treating.
Now you may be asking yourselves, "Jessie, you are 19 years old.  Did you really go trick-or-treating?"
Yes, yes I did :)
I threw on my cat ears
Gave myself cat eyes
Best photo I had of them
And drew on some whiskers
And was out the door!  
I went with my friends Faith, Dustin, and Wyatt.  We went through one of the major neighborhoods in our town, which meant we got to see some other people we knew as we went.
It was nothing crazy.  No wild parties or insane stories, but I got to be with my friends and have fun.  I spent time with someone who is special to me and will forever be close to my heart.  
I had one hell of night :)

Hope everyone had a wonderful Halloween!
Peace, Love, Music <3

Monday, August 20, 2012

Concert Outfit

Here's my outfit from the Relient K concert last week:
Shirt: Khols
Shorts: Deb
Shoes: Journey's 
Bracelet: Concert

Silly face :P

Mirror Shot

I'll post my "back to school" outfit tomorrow :)
Peace, Love, Music<3

Sunday, May 27, 2012

Vampire Kisses comes to an end.

Some of you may have read or heard of the vampire kisses book and manga series.  
There are 9 books...









 and 4 graphic novels...




  A few days ago I finished reading the final installment to the book series.  It really took the plot and brought it to a close with a neat little bow on top.  
Where these books the most intellectual and well written books on the planet? No.  But they have a great story line and a strong alternative female main character.  The books were cute and kind of nerdy and absolutely wonderful.  If you are looking for an easy series to read that can hold your interest, definitely check these out. 
I will definitely miss reading new installments of these lovely little books...
Peace, Love, Music<3

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Random Outfit Post

So, as I've been trying to put a bit more effort into my outfits recently, I thought I'd start doing a few outfit post on the ones I like the most.  So here we go!!
Some time last week, I wore one of my new favorite outfits.
This is a bit blurry, but you can see the entire outfit here!
Peace tank: Hot Topic
Black shorts: Deb
Tights: JcPenny
Boots: I honestly don't remember
Closer view
My wonderful leopard tights and favorite boots.
Peace <3
There you have it! My second outfit post.
Soon I will be posting a lot of concert reviews as I've been quite a neglectful blogger and I'm backlogged at least 3, so keep your eyes peeled for that.

As for my current life right now, I'm about to wrap up my last week of classes before finals.  I'm so excited about this, I can't wait for summer!
Also, tomorrow I will be going to a local University's music exhibit, so hopefully I will have some pic and fun stories from that.
That's all for now! Hope everyone is doing well!
Peace, Love, Music <3 

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Life

Today my hometown lost one of its own in a car accident.  I wasn't close to the guy but it still hit pretty hard.  He was only twenty years old. He had his whole life ahead of him and it was gone in an instant. There was a possibility that he had been drinking.  You may be wondering why I'm telling you this, so here it is.  Life is short.  It can be gone in an instant.  Don't waste a second of it.  And if you are going to drink, please, please, don't drive.  Not only could you hurt yourself, but you could hurt all the people that love you, that know you.  And tell those you love just how much they mean to you.
I love you all, whoever you are, wherever you are, I truly do.
Live life to the fullest, but be safe.
Peace, Love, Music<3
(R.I.P Tyler)

Thursday, September 29, 2011

For Love and Hope

Today, my friend tweeted a link to a project called 300 love letters.  I clicked the link not really knowing what to expect.  As I read the explanation of this project, I got this amazing feeling, this thought that maybe, just maybe I could do something similar. Then all these insane, crazy complicated, yet at the same time so unbievably simple ideas came rushing into my head.  I think I know what I want to do.  Here's the thing: once I get all the details worked out, I'm gonna need some help.  And who better to ask than my wonderful, amazing followers, readers and fellow bloggers.  So what do you say?  Will you help me bring alittle hope, a little love, back to this crazy messed up world?  Think about it. There will definitely be more to come!
Peace, Love, Music<3

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Count the "I Love You's"

Well my brain is officially fried. It's been working a constant changing schedule trying to figure out what to do when, how, where, how much and has officially turned to mush. Since I'm currently sitting at the computer doing nothing anyway, I thought I'd post some pics with lyrics. Enjoy!
*All lyrics and pics found on google.*

I'm scared today
More than I told you I was yesterday
Give me a moment to catch my breath
And hold me every second left

If the sky is the limit, then I'll build a bridge up to it.
If I make it back, I'd still want more, more.
If the sky is the limit, then I'll steal the air that's in it.
I won't take it back, I'd still want more.
I'd still want more

If all these words you speak of meant a thing
I'd take back all the lines against you that I sing
But I know that there's nothing real inside
Your heart's invested in feeding everyone lies

Oh, happily ever after, wouldn't you know, wouldn't you
know.
Oh, skip to the ending, who'd like to know, I'd like to
know.
Author of the moment, can you tell me, do I end up, do
I end up happy?
I hope that you see right through my walls
I hope that you catch me, cause I'm already falling
I'll never let a love get so close
You put your arms around me and I'm home
Can you tell I like Christina Perri songs? Anywho, I may not be able to post alot this next week because of school, but stick with me, I'll always be back!
Peace, Love, Music<3

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Fall Foolishly

I've been in a cutesy love song kinda mood today, so I thought I'd do a random lyric and picspam. Enjoy!
*All images and lyrics found on google.
But I don't see the harm in love
No, I don't see no harm at all
To fall foolishly
To hurt secretly
That someone else could feel this way
And fall foolishly


 


I wanna be your last, first kiss
That you'll ever have
I wanna be your last, first kiss


I'll love you til we're black and we're blue
There's no words I could say to make me change
My minds made up, my thoughts stay the same
Baby, I love you
We'll make it through
 

I get your point,
We're better friends than lovers,
And if I had a chance, I'd do it all over, 
You got in my heart, you got in my head,
and I believe everything that you said,
We're at a cross road..

I guess that we're moving on


When violet eyes get brighter
And heavy wings grow lighter
I'll taste the sky and feel alive again
And I'll forget the world that I knew
But I swear I won't forget you
Oh, if my voice could reach
Back through the past
I'd whisper in your ear
Oh darling, I wish you were here


Have a wonderful day everyone!
Peace, Love, Music<3